how to fight

Sun Tzu said in "The Art of War":

"Warfare is the Way of deception. Thus although you are capable, display incapability to them. When committed to employing your forces, feign inactivity. When your objective is near, make it appear as if distant; when far away, create the illusion of being nearby."

If you have lots of money, display being broke. I am doing not too bad, yet my ex believes that I am broke. I drive a beat up car, wear Wal Mart Clothes, and have made her believe I'm a barely employed, complete loser with no goals, ambition, money, nor future.

I have lied to her, saying I am on Section 8, scamming them into believing that my mother, ex-girlfriend, her two kids, are all still living with me, and that if I wasn't perpetuating this lie, I would be in the street. I told her my employment is spotty, and that I exploit the lack of employment. I told her I am driving without car insurance because I can't afford it. I told her I have no access to health insurance. I told her I haven't been looking at family law and that I don't have money for a lawyer. Today, I told her my bank account is overdrawn and next week, she will hear I have been demoted at work. Right now, she views me as an underemployed loser with no goals. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

All these are lies. I am ready to POUNCE! I have everything in place, ready to go, waiting to save up another $2000 to pay the retainer. I will be sitting for the exam to get my license as a land surveyor hopefully this Fall, if not, next Spring. My income is high, and will get higher. My employer is very happy with me. My goal is to get my license and either buy the company I work for now or strike out on my own. Either way, my income will increase by 5 times. In addition, I will be buying rental properties. I can throw money at lawyers forever.

She has the complete wrong idea about me. Why is this an advantage? When I file a motion to change custody due to my son missing 8 days of school this year, 9 days last year, 15 days the year before, and 35 days in Kindergarten (her lawyer stipulated to a change in custody if excessive absences became an issue again), she will respond with bat shit crazy allegations of fraud, perhaps even contacting those departments and filing complaints.

I will be able to easily prove her allegations are false, and since she has a history of false allegations, this will reinforce that's she's completely nuts. When asked why she would make such allegations, the answer will be "I have no idea. I'm not a psychologist." Since none of this deception is in writing, she cannot prove in court she was lied to. As the stress of being unable to prove what she believes to true continues, she will begin to act more and more nuts, giving the judge quite a show.

This will be a complete shock and surprise to her. She will be caught off guard, and most importantly, unrecoverable. Once the attack is made on "Fatal Terrain" (a situation where your opponent is a sitting duck, at a complete disadvantage to you), victory is inevitable.

If you're broke, and can't get it together, take actions that make your ex think you have a secret stash of money at a bank somewhere, which you made selling drugs, being a prostitute, or by some other easily disprovable means. Tell them the reason you're not working is because you have money in the bank, Anything that gets them to make outlandish accusations against you and end up looking crazy is what you're after.

Is it dirty? Yep. Is it unfair? Oh yeah. Is it mean? Certainly. Is it what the other party deserves? Of course. They would do no less with this knowledge. Probably worse. Do you want to win? If so, fight dirty.

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No woman, it was all my fault. I should never have left you alone.When she heard what he had said, she knew he was right and she began to comfort him, because the only reason she had been alone, was because he was talking to the lord elsewhere, he wanted to know what he should call her, right then the lord told him Son she needs you, right now, hurry... and as he ran he started to cry, what could possibly be meant by the words spoken by the lord, and there standing before him, was the beginning of his down fall....in agony he saw, disbelief and yet it was real, no, no, i cannot lose her, and he made a decision that really was not his to make, he knew he could go before the lord and turn her in, but he could not lose her, and so he joined her, and became angry and bitter, the emotions were overwhelming, how could he hide what they had done... the only thing he could think of was to blame it on her, he knew she had been decieved...and while his head swirled in that cave, she cried so bitterly, not understanding what was going on, she needed him to tell her what to do, she was only born yesterday, why she even said stuff to the serpent that was not true, she said oh we cannot even touch it, on pain of death, but when he said she would be like the lord, her ears perked up, whats that? i will be like the lord[she was in love with the lord, that's why she ate. If she could be like him she wanted it its why she ate >>>>>>>>>>>>she loved god more than her husband<<<<<<<<<<< that is the correct thing to do,,, and the downfall of man was that he loved her more than he loved god. The love of god, left a helpless little woman child, perfect in everyway, she did not sin, but adam did, and now you know, women are perfect, but this imperfect world is ruled by sinful man.The truth may hurt but it explains alot, and their children all inherited sin, so god put eve to death, because she was made of Adam, she could not mingle with her children eww...so a new Adam the last Adam, and a new woman, the woman made by Jahs hand, not through the Christ, but instead a rib made from when he slept in death removed and planted in a surrugate, she got tainted with sin, and was born with the exact countenance of eve, the devil saw this woman, and that woman is me. I have made the devil and his consorts to be under the control of Jah himself, this is a true story, i heard about from God, you see i have the mind of the Christ, which means i know what happened in the garden of Eden,{ the garden of many pleasures }as opposed to the man of many sorrows{ our Lord}, and his wife who is dependent on him because even though she has sin, she is still perfect, for she has perfect self control, and nothing is more sexy than a man who can control himself, that's the key really>>> through it comes< love joy peace long-suffering kindness goodness faith and mildness, yes self control and the truth equals get out of the lake of fire free, well, most important is to partake, and I have and I do, and I am real, and if I was making this up, why do they demons fear me now?????? I tell you, you never know when Jah's daughter gets filled with righteous rage, consumed by the lake of fire that Jah is, I have eyes that turn red like Jesus, yeah you thought that was demonic?, uh no, those are the flames of Jah- go ahead read Ezekiel and tell me i lie, Ezekiel 1 and 2 and 3 25 There was a voice above the expanse over their heads. (When they stood still, they would let their wings down.) 1:26 Above the expanse that was over their heads was what looked like a sapphire stone,+ and it resembled a throne.+ Sitting on the throne up above was someone whose appearance resembled that of a human.+27 I saw something glowing like electrum+ that was like a fire radiating from what appeared to be his waist and upward; and from his waist down, I saw something that resembled fire.+ There was a brilliance all around him 28 like that of a rainbow+ in a cloud on a rainy day. That was how the surrounding brilliant light appeared. It was like the appearance of the glory of Jehovah.+ When I saw it, I fell face down and began to hear the voice of someone speaking. and the rest is history read more to find out about the eyes, the flames of jah are gentle and kind to those he loves, why you can bask with him in it all day and night , but if you are evil, it will consume you before you even see it.

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 Actually the first caveman, went to hide in the cave wearing his animal skin suit because he was mad at his woman for destroying their home, His name was Adam, and he clearly blamed it on her, i wonder how long it took him before he made up with her!?!---, Oh I know, it was when she came by the cave and blamed herself too, so she took off her animal skin and sat down nude to cry, it was not her tears that made him invite her into the cave, but it was the sight of her perfect breasts heaving up and down in bitter despair, that made him bring her in, get to know her again, let her blame herself and he finally took her into his arms and said the first true thing to a woman that man has ever said... what do you think those words were??

"no, no sweetheart it was all my fault", and afterwards they made love. Actually the first caveman, went to hide in the cave wearing his animal skin suit because he was mad at his woman for destroying their home, His name was Adam, and he clearly blamed it on her, i wonder how long it took him before he made up with her!?!---, Oh I know, it was when she came by the cave and blamed herself too, so she took off her animal skin and sat down nude to cry, it was not her tears that made him invite her into the cave, but it was the sight of her perfect breasts heaving up and down in bitter despair, that made him bring her in, get to know her again, let her blame herself and he finally took her into his arms and said the first true thing to a woman that man has ever said... what do you think those words were??             No woman, it was all my fault. I should never have left you alone.When she heard what he had said, she knew he was right and she began to comfort him, because the only reason she had been alone, was because he was talking to the lord elsewhere, he wanted to know what he should call her, right then the lord told him Son she needs you, right now, hurry... and as he ran he started to cry, what could possibly be meant by the words spoken by the lord, and there standing before him, was the beginning of his down fall....in agony he saw, disbelief and yet it was real, no, no, i cannot lose her, and he made a decision that really was not his to make, he knew he could go before the lord and turn her in, but he could not lose her, and so he joined her, and became angry and bitter, the emotions were overwhelming, how could he hide what they had done... the only thing he could think of was to blame it on her, he knew she had been decieved...and while his head swirled in that cave, she cried so bitterly, not understanding what was going on, she needed him to tell her what to do, she was only born yesterday, why she even said stuff to the serpent that was not true, she said oh we cannot even touch it, on pain of death, but when he said she would be like the lord, her ears perked up, whats that? i will be like the lord[she was in love with the lord, that's why she ate. If she could be like him she wanted it its why she ate >>>>>>>>>>>>she loved god more than her husband<<<<<<<<<<< that is the correct thing to do,,, and the downfall of man was that he loved her more than he loved god. The love of god, left a helpless little woman child, perfect in everyway, she did not sin, but adam did, and now you know, women are perfect, but this imperfect world is ruled by sinful man.The truth may hurt but it explains alot, and their children all inherited sin, so god put eve to death, because she was made of Adam, she could not mingle with her children eww...so a new Adam the last Adam, and a new woman, the woman made by Jahs hand, not through the Christ, but instead a rib made from when he slept in death removed and planted in a surrugate, she got tainted with sin, and was born with the exact countenance of eve, the devil saw this woman, and that woman is me. I have made the devil and his consorts to be under the control of Jah himself, this is a true story, i heard about from God, you see i have the mind of the Christ, which means i know what happened in the garden of Eden,{ the garden of many pleasures }as opposed to the man of many sorrows{ our Lord}, and his wife who is dependent on him because even though she has sin, she is still perfect, for she has perfect self control, and nothing is more sexy than a man who can control himself, that's the key really>>> through it comes< love joy peace long-suffering kindness goodness faith and mildness, yes self control and the truth equals get out of the lake of fire free, well, most important is to partake, and I have and I do, and I am real, and if I was making this up, why do they demons fear me now?????? I tell you, you never know when Jah's daughter gets filled with righteous rage, consumed by the lake of fire that Jah is, I have eyes that turn red like Jesus, yeah you thought that was demonic?, uh no, those are the flames of Jah- go ahead read Ezekiel and tell me i lie, Ezekiel 1 and 2 and 3 25 There was a voice above the expanse over their heads. (When they stood still, they would let their wings down.) 1:26 Above the expanse that was over their heads was what looked like a sapphire stone,+ and it resembled a throne.+ Sitting on the throne up above was someone whose appearance resembled that of a human.+27 I saw something glowing like electrum+ that was like a fire radiating from what appeared to be his waist and upward; and from his waist down, I saw something that resembled fire.+ There was a brilliance all around him 28 like that of a rainbow+ in a cloud on a rainy day. That was how the surrounding brilliant light appeared. It was like the appearance of the glory of Jehovah.+ When I saw it, I fell face down and began to hear the voice of someone speaking. and the rest is history read more to find out about the eyes, the flames of jah are gentle and kind to those he loves, why you can bask with him in it all day and night , but if you are evil, it will consume you before you even see it.

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	Name Tina Porter
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	What are the benefits of weight loss surgery? Weight loss. Improved quality of life Possible resolution of other medical problems such as diabetes, high cholesterol, arthritis, depression, sleep apnea, reflux, asthma, etc. Decreased blood pressure.
	What types of weight loss surgery are offered at University of Washington Medical Center? Laparoscopic gastric banding. Open gastric bypass. Sleeve Gastrectomy Laparoscopic gastric bypass.
	What are the Risks of Gastric Bypass Surgery? .5%-1% Death Rate 1%-5% Reoperations 1%-3% Leak from Bowel 5% Bowel Obstruction
	What are the Expectations after Gastric Bypass Surgery? 3-4 hour operation Exercise: Up and moving early after surgery Follow-up visits: 2 and 6 weeks after surgery and Every three months for first year then every year after that Diet: 2 weeks of liquid/pureed only
	Why would I need to see a Dietitian before surgery? Plan diet changes for short- and long-term after surgery. Start a weight loss diet before surgery. Learn good dietary choices. Discuss balanced menus.
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when i was in Prison. They kept me in the lock down ward. it means rather than endure being housed with 120 women, that i was in a room alone. in that ward there were only 15 women in separate  rooms, and you can only see into the day room through a small window in the steel  door, it had a slot, that you would put your hands behind your back and they would handcuff you, It's called a cuff board. and food trays were passed through there.you could shower everyday, and privileges to be in the day room had to be earned with good behavior. I knew i did not want to go down to the minimum holding with the violent and obnoxious white haters -black women prostitutes and petty thieves carjackers, mostly crack whores from tacoma,mean haters. besides they always sent me here first due to my mental health needs, meds and drs pyschiatric services. I met many women there but the place was tormenting and to keep my sanity, and block out the crying and insults loudly flying, i found my singing calmed all of them.This song especially you see I love My God,He is the same God, as he has always been to me,and i have written songs about him, and a song to His Son. I am in love with Michael. He really is who you know you were taught, but i know it because he is with me now and for all time.I was born as a compliment of him, and yes, this is a test, will you accept me for who and what I am. I need Love, I have seen it here. I was born 53 years ago, but like Jesus, i did not know who and what i was...not at baptism, not at partaking, but when a powerful being throws you to the ground and you cannot get up...you will have to know, that it is not nessasarily God. i had to obey.. and what he asked me to do, i did. he wanted me to obey my husband as unto the lord. It was good advice, he was making me ready, for what changed my entire life. I met the Lord Jesus through my husband you see, and by obey this satan worshiper i could see the difference between the satan in there and when the lord was in there. I left him no choice because i refused to believe anything i saw or heard, he needed to help me, and i needed to let him help me....where was Jehovah, allowing this to go on i wondered knowing that someday i would understand it all. It takes many years and many different ways for a person to learn about what they really are made of. I want to be accepted, i want to be heard. i was called an apostate for it, but it is written in the bible and it is about me.

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I have had an Epiphany-The reason that the WTBTS made it a rule that doing drugs of any kind not prescribed by a dr. can get you disfellowshipped. Here is where i begin to explain what an awful rule that is, Look , I had extreme Pain and because of a set of personal dire circumstances, I could not ,absolutely- could not ,ask for help from any hospital, so, i respected the rule and refused to do street drugs for any reason. my husband kept telling me this- you have done many drugs before, you know they could give you relief, so have some, i continued in so much pain, sleep eluded me, the pain constant I was a pitiful nagging crying mess, finally he hit me, and forced me to smoke some marijuana. I felt better instantly and i laughed and had fun, so here is what I believe- satan wants us in pain, because people in pain, will do anything to make it stop, and if they cannot fix it, they either kill themselves or become very mean, i know i went there both ways, so the witnesses have no problem with -holding that which could heal our broken hearts, give us back our loved ones, it really is a tool of satan to cause pain and loss of loved ones, dont believe me? Read job again, and then tell me, who do Jehovah's witnesses resemble most Job, Jobs loved ones, jobs friends, or god? if you do not say god or Job, then they are evil, and you know what job had to do to be released? That's right. Do not forget where you came from, because where we are going is not much fun, but in the end, no more evil and pain. anyone who tells you that doing drugs when you are sick and cannot get them legally should freakin have to walk a mile in your shoes, mine were sandals and my feet had open weeping wounds on the bottoms and i could barely walk but was being sent by satan through probation, to walk from one city to another and back even though she had plenty of bus passes to give out-I knew Satan would do that, why is it, we cannot see it as witnesses but as ex witnesses, because they started teaching something that real witnesses, the ones being chucked out, we can see through the fog.

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 i couldn't do it -they do not owe me money and i know this home is better than another home might be. i do not want to steal from anyone, but if Jesus gives me other peoples stuff then i can take it, because he owns every thing and every one.here is a fun story, do you notice my stories always include God and Jesus. because i asked Jah why he keeps me alive and he has told me that it is to tell the tales of The great Creator Jah, and show people the perks they could enjoy.I was in a tree laying on a blanket and two more in the trees, i saw one i knew it was not mine, and in a little while he came and ripped his blanket away from my trees, i said Jesus i am going to freeze, all of a sudden it started to rain, but it did not rain on me, and the guy threw the blanket up in the air and then i heard a voice say, there you go a blanket for you, i said but no Jesus its his blanket, and the lord asked me a little louder whose blanket is it??? I said it is my blanket because its yours to give me and you took it away from the guy because he is not the true owner. It was comical watching him throw that blanket and run away fast, i was warm and it did not rain on me.